Tuesday, February 25, 2014

Knitting Adventure: Stitches West 2014, Santa Clara, California

Unlike my previous knitting adventures that I've shared here, I have no pictures.

I got a new phone, of the 'Smart' variety.  I found out today, after I was home from the adventure for a day, that when we purchased it, the fellow was supposed to set it up on the internet for me, which we did not know and it did not happen.


I can TELL you what it was like.  There was a large market place, larger than the one at Sock Summit, if you were there, I think by twice the size. I was in a booth right at the front door, which was awesome for me, because I saw a lot of people as they came in the door about to start shopping so they were plenty excited and most were adorned in a recently finished project. I saw a lot of shawls, sweaters, hats, scarves, skirts... 

I have met 5 people who were there before I went. I think I may have met a few thousand there easily. I met teachers, students, designers, yarn company reps, other market lurkers like me. I attended events: There was a fashion show, another fashion show for students, a pajama party, a podcaster meet-up, I shared adult beverages in the bar while knitting before I headed upstairs to the hotel to bed.

I realize I have a lot of work to do, now, to get better at what I want to do. I knew I would be inspired, I was HOPING for inspiration and I was not disappointed. I know now that with a little effort I can go so much further. There are lots of people paving my direction, because what I had hoped for was to encourage and motivate others toward the craft I love and because that is my priority, others are offering to show me my options, for which there are many.

And so, I've come home Grateful, Humbled, and Flying.

(If I have more to add to this, I will, but for now, this is the simple version.)

Tuesday, February 4, 2014

February 4th

February 4th has been my traditionally bad day of the year.

There are some good things about it. My Uncle and Aunts anniversary was February 4th. It is Sweet Malia's birthday, so that's nice.

Some young people I know lost their momma to Cancer on February 4th, one of them was only 5 1/2 months old.  That was awful.

Tuesday, February 4th, 39 years ago, was the last time I spoke with my father. I saw him once later, but we didn't speak. He never sent a letter, or a card, or his child support payment until I was old enough he didn't have to pay for me anymore. He never apologized.

He continues to do damage. My siblings don't speak to me, and treat my mother with disrespect, because all they can see is that they were separated from their 'daddy'. I still feel his shadow behind me and look over my shoulder expecting the worst.

Next year, February 4th will be 40 years since the last time we spoke as I handed him his lunch that my mother made and he drove away to work. But it won't be Tuesday.

Saturday, February 1, 2014

About Wendy Bernard, for Marly Bird

I've been helping Marly Bird with her Facebook/Twitter and Ravelry pages for a few weeks now. One of the things she's gearing up to do is a Crochet & Knit -a-long (yes, Knitters and Crocheters can participate) with another talented designer.  Marly asked me to write a blog post about her friend and I'm duplicating it here as well. Find Marly at www.marlybird.com

Hello, crafty folk!  It's Tammy, Marly's social media helper. I'm excited, as I'm sure you are, about the first Yarn Thing with Marly Bird's FIRST Crochet and Knit -a-long. It was revealed in the first newsletter, Marly Bird, A Little 'Bird' Told Me, that her partner is this adventure will be the lovely

Wendy Bernard, of Knit and Tonic ( www.knitandtonic.net

As you can see from our posts on Facebook, Twitter and Ravelry, Marly is a little swamped so she asked if I could put together some information about Wendy.

First, I listened to Marly's interview of Wendy from January, almost two years ago.  You may want to catch that if you didn't hear it the first time, or if you heard it and after two years, a refresher is a good thing ... http://www.blogtalkradio.com/yarnthing/2012/01/31/custom-knits-2-wendy-bernard

Then, assuming that Wendy is busy too, I sent her an e-mail with a few questions we would like to know.  I appreciated her responses so much that, rather than edit what she said, I will just let you read it as I received it.

Tammy: Do you prefer Knit or Crochet? It sounds like a stupid question, and I'm assuming Knit because your designs are all knitting but do you ever crochet? You mentioned you were doing some sewing at that time when you were on Yarn Thing, how is that going?

Wendy:  I do prefer to knit although I do crochet for fun sometimes. I also sew and embroider like crazy. Crochet, sewing, embroidery, Temari are all relaxing activities for me. Unless I'm knitting something like socks or a cap (which I feel can be relaxing), I don't knit for relaxation, probably because I consider knitting and designing knitting patterns is what I do for a living.

(Note: I didn't know what Temari was so I've had to look it up. Here is the wikipedia page (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Temari_(toy)) but basically it is an oriental ball that is wrapped in silk trimmings or embroidered -- and they are beautiful!)

Tammy: You mentioned that your grandmother taught you. Did you have any other training or work in fashion? You mentioned you have a publishing background and also that you started designing because you were altering other patterns. What gave you the thought of altering a pattern before you started researching those methods? Was it simply knitting for your child that pushed you over this designing edge?

Wendy: My grandmother did teach me to knit around age 10, I think. I didn't knit again except maybe a scarf for a boyfriend in high school (it rolled!). When I was pregnant, I picked up knitting again and my first project was one of those little hats that looks like a strawberry. I did start out in publishing and was a marketing executive for many years and had no background at all in fashion or design--although I had always sewed my own clothes. Since my daughter was so premature, I decided to quit my job to be at home with her. I started a blog and talked about what I was knitting. I would alter patterns for the usual reasons: shortening sleeves, changing the shape, etc., and my readers would encourage me to make up my own patterns. So, I did. One day, I received an email from a literary agent, who asked me if I wanted to write a book, and I said "why not?"

Tammy: I personally love a couple of your designs, one is 'Jordan' which is a beautiful lace tunic, and the other is 'Hana Hou'. I'm sure you've been asked a million times about your inspiration, but between this FEMININE tunic and a FUN felted Ukulele bag, I've got know. What makes you get stoked about a design? Do you wait to be excited about a yarn you're asked to design with, or is it a theme? You've mentioned that Elizabeth Zimmerman inspires you, as she does us all. Is there other designers' works that get your creative juices flowing? 

Wendy: This is the hardest question for me to answer. Basically, I knit things that I would want to wear or use. It's as simple as that. If I see something on the street that inspires me, I'll go home and sketch. After that, I'll find the appropriate materials. It's harder for me when someone sends me yarn and says "design something." I prefer to want to make a particular looking item and after that find the yarn. Does that make sense? As far as other designers' work that inspires me, there are quite a handful, but not necessarily knitwear designers. I like to look at magazines like Vogue (not the knitting one) and InStyle and I like going to Malibu or to Los Angeles and people watch. It's fun to see what the younger set is wearing on the streets. Because of the climate, it's a little harder for me to focus on items that are meant to keep one warm!

Tammy: With Marly Bird you are doing a Crochet and Knit -a-Long. There haven't been any details yet even as far as what type of project are we knitting, as in Clothing item or Accessory. Besides getting to work together with Marly (smile) is there something about this particular project that tickles you? 

Wendy: What tickles me is that I never did entrelac before! (Folks -- I think that was a BIG CLUE about what we will be creating in the C/KAL!) I didn't even WANT to do entrelac as I didn't like the idea of turning my work every row or round. Also, I hadn't really ever seen an entrelac item that "spoke" to me enough to make me want to learn the technique. But when Marly brought up the subject of doing a K/CAL, I thought "why not?" I had this great ombre lace on hand and, well, why not? I took a craftsy class and figured out how to do some basic entrelac and knit backwards and now I'm addicted to entrelac! It is so much fun!

Tammy: Do you teach? Are you going to STITCHES West or any other events coming up?

Wendy: I do teach locally, but that's about it right now. I don't travel that much because I have a young daughter and my husband often works weekends. I also have no local family to help out. Once my daughter gets a little older I might consider traveling more often, but for now, I do teach locally and go to TNNA for book signings when new books come out.

Wendy Bernard currently has 141 designs listed in Ravelry, so after you check out her website www.knitandtonic.net I would head over there to her designer page (http://www.ravelry.com/designers/wendy-bernard).  I'm sure there are lots more goodies to come while we work on our Crochet or Knit -a-Long together.